Communication – the essence of life-III
Correct
modulation and pronunciation trigger the aptitude to learn and promote harmony
in interaction. Poor attention to these fails to help interaction. Verbal
communication is an educator of nuances of speech. All our efforts are meant to
help greater success; so, utmost care of functional elements is essential.
Pacing the delivery:
All speakers have a particular style which is
personalized. Still, there is enough opportunity to adjust the pace of speech.
By this, the speaker identifies a common ground with listeners. It is the
natural pace at which listener-speaker ensemble strikes the right wavelength.
Any undue variation in pace can prove distracting. It is advisable for speakers
to systematize the pace of delivery, making it comfortable for interaction.
However, abrupt change of pace is a method of inviting greater attention. Using
such a strategy must be sparing, as to be an effective tool whenever applied.
Another technique is paraphrasing.
Paraphrasing:
Paraphrasing
is a method of repeating an idea with a different set of words. It helps to
look at a situation from slightly modified expressions. Indeed it is an
alternative mechanism to drive a point home. It is based on the observation
that listeners are of a spectrum, where individuals differ in taste and
alertness. Making use of paraphrasing may help catering to a wider section of
the audience. Since statements do not
repeat verbatim, listeners stay attentive. Thus, one can avoid sounding
monotonous. It can also be realized that listeners get to have an idea of
alternative expressions. It is a kind of healthy practice by throwing open
different forms adaptable to a situation.
Orderly progression:
The most important component in communication
is orderly progression. It is a scientific approach of placing data in a
sequence beginning from basics to higher end. This provides the opportunity for
telescoping of ideas leading to the ultimate focal point. Such an approach
ensures a balanced treatment of subject matter from broad base to a steep
summit. Organizing the ideas in a sequence and relating the components thereof becomes
essential. The advantage of this approach lies in its natural strength of
helping logical understanding. When ideas are not in right sequence, chances of
confusion and taxing the memory can arise to the listener. All speakers must
recognize the listener problems in order that they themselves do not set wrong
examples.
All
components suggested so far relate to verbal expression. Verbal expressions are
generally linked to facial or body movements of the communicator. The silent
but effective expression is the body language. It is a natural corollary to
verbal presentation. In a way, body language is a close associate of mind.
Invariably, body language helps the listener to recognize meaning of words more
readily than from merely listening to the voice. Successful speakers adopt the
silent mechanism of body language. Interestingly, shrugging of shoulders,
arching of lips or eyebrows, brightening of eyeball through expanded eyebrows,
fluttering of eyebrows or eyelashes, winking of an eye or eyes, penetrative
looks, nodding of head, scornful looks etc., serve as universal language in the company of
words expressed. In fact, these gestures convey more meaning than the words
themselves. So, integrating body language to spoken words is an appropriate
strategy of effective communication.
Written
communication:
This is by far the most common mode in
offices. Therefore, a high degree of routine goes with them. In fact, the
practices have become so entrenched that redundant expressions are taken as
office norms.
For instance, in the subheads- Subject and
Reference- nearly the same statements appear. Also, another common expression
“enclosed herewith” is redundant as ‘herewith’ and ‘enclosed’ mean the same. Also,
“the copies are returned back” can simply be “copies are retuned” or “sent
back”. Long experience with improper usages are hard to rectify since the
workers fear “incompleteness” from simple and correct usages.
Some
level of confusion prevails in using “faithfully” or “sincerely” at the end of
letters sent to offices or departments. The convention is to use “faithfully”
for letters addressed by designation [the person holding the position may be
unknown], “sincerely” for letters addressed by the name of the person holding
the office.
P.S [
Post script ] is an accepted practice of adding information as a tail piece
–either as a later addition or as a step of inviting attention to a critical
message relating to the text of the letter.
Despite the rigid requirements of the written
form, there are advantages too. Always ready references to standard protocols
are available. All draft statements can be checked for correctness of
information and construction. Any number of corrections may be carried out
before communications are sent across. Unlike through speech, in the written
form greater authenticity is expected of the information. It is ideal to
acquire the necessary skills instead of repeated corrections for grammar and
vocabulary. In the ultimate analysis, all forms of communication intend
‘reaching’ the recipient. ‘Reaching’ has to be recognized as percolating the
mind; it is not an exercise of sending letters/words across. Unless, the idea
traverses the recipients, the quantum of impact it may generate would be weak
and fading. Therefore every care on all the elements of communication shall be
bestowed. Such an effort can infuse similar trends among recipients at least
over a period of time. Keeping abreast of contemporary usages and terms would
enhance the image of the communicators. These principles hold good for all
times and languages. Prof. K. Raman
Nicely summary on the importane of communication. Very esssential part of life.
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