BE A PICTURE OF CONFIDENCE

BE A PICTURE OF CONFIDENCE   

In any first interaction, a lot of silent inspection goes on to assess the composure of the aspirant to a position. If the person seems to be nervous, mature panelists allow for ‘cooling down’ time and avoid tormenting him /her for a few minutes. It is done by switching over to the ‘comfort zone’ of the individual for nativity, mother tongue, institutions of study and so on merely to ease off mental pressure.

Certainly it helps the candidate in recouping his or her wits to face technical questions. It is important that boys and girls augment interactive skills essential for ‘formal situations’ of selection to higher studies or job. There has to be a systematic effort to keep skills pruned and ready to respond.

Moment a question is flung at, many candidates display physical agony [twitching of facial muscles], mental trauma [rapid eye movements/ vague looks].

Such signals convince the interviewer that the candidate is not fit to face ground situation. It is rather unfortunate that knowledge stays latent, failing to bring out the talent.

Selectors are pragmatic and cannot be sympathetic. Why should a qualified individual long for sympathy, when [s]he can seize the opportunity to reveal merit or calibre?

There is no point in glorifying our merits in private conversation, while revealing precious little in a session of discussion or a forum of relevance.

Confidence is a virtue associated with ‘well organized’ minds.  None can put on looks of confidence.  Critical questioning can prick the bubble of composed looks.

The suggestion is, confidence has to enshrine itself in the knowledge base of the person. Any inadequacy on this facet [which includes skills of communication], impedes the manifestation of authentic confidence. It will not be long, before the individual stands exposed.

Needless to reiterate that, as a part of learning, one has to augment good skills of presentation- physical and verbal. Together, these bestow on the individual ‘authentic confidence’ In a nutshell the organized totality is what goes by the attribute ‘COMPOSURE’ essential for winning critical assessment for any placement that helps dignified living.